Categories rant

Rules for dating (especially for “nice guys”)

In no particular order, and open to frequent revision: Rule 1: Forget everything you’ve learned. Forget whatever you saw on every TV show, movie, fairy tale, or webcast. Most of them are ridiculous, stilted, or simplistic. Real emotions and hormones are unreliable, gritty, and erratic. To think a cleaned up Continue Reading

Categories friends

More nice guys

Nice guys: “Why do we have to start conversations? Why don’t girls start ’em?” We don’t have to; guys with spines are already talking to us. — Shannon

Categories intangibles

Nice Guys

Being a “nice guy” is like being an alcoholic, in that you’re never really cured. There’s always that little bit of something in the back of your mind, waiting to jump out and take over your life again. So I speak from personal experience, but hopefully at a distance. It Continue Reading