“A man has always wanted to lay me down, but never wanted to pick me up.” — Eartha Kitt.
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immerse
When I have sex with someone I forget who I am. For a minute I even forget I’m human. It’s the same thing when I’m behind a camera. I forget I exist. — Robert Mapplethorpe
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art
Katie West
Things like this are why I love Katie West’s work. Normally she’s known as a self-portrait photographer; but she expresses herself so well in any format she chooses. This appeals to me both directly if not exactly, and in wanting a woman who thinks like this. How I choose my Continue Reading
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Valkyrie
“She was one of those giant broad beamed Scandinavian giantess warrior women types; the fucking Russ Meyer buxotic women, you know what I mean: WOMEN with breasts and hips like we don’t have anymore. Oh my god what was that horrible- what is this god awful frightened 14 year old Continue Reading
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rant
Rules for dating (especially for “nice guys”)
In no particular order, and open to frequent revision: Rule 1: Forget everything you’ve learned. Forget whatever you saw on every TV show, movie, fairy tale, or webcast. Most of them are ridiculous, stilted, or simplistic. Real emotions and hormones are unreliable, gritty, and erratic. To think a cleaned up Continue Reading
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life worth living
assurance and inexpressible delight
Let the philosophers rave on about the summum bonum and mystics about embracing God. They are still vertical humans and therefore even their adorations still have something aggressive about them. Humans in the horizontal position have always struck me as less likely to be violent and destructive. So I take Continue Reading
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intangibles
Nice Guys
Being a “nice guy” is like being an alcoholic, in that you’re never really cured. There’s always that little bit of something in the back of your mind, waiting to jump out and take over your life again. So I speak from personal experience, but hopefully at a distance. It Continue Reading
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friends
i have no words…
I think I have fulfilled one of my lifelong goals, with this comment I received today: I know I needed the laugh and believe it or not u r the first one I think of when I think of any comment about my ass!! hard to believe I know
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whores
“Do you think I’m a whore?” Well… you know… not ME. I only wish I had that kind of problem. But it’s a topic that seems to come up on a not infrequent basis. Women asking me as a representative of the male gender, if I think so-and-so physical act Continue Reading
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photo
women wanted
I took this about a block from my apartment yesterday. I was getting out of the house for a mental break, and thinking that I needed to photograph something for my daily shot. I had just started literally looking around me, when I saw this sign. Some things never change, Continue Reading
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home
male prostitute
You know I get no end of joy out of watching the prostitutes as I walk home late at night. Flamboyant doesn’t even begin to describe them. Is ‘miamiviceish’ a word? But last night as I walked back from the metro around 3:00, a big, black SUV pulled up near Continue Reading
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Prostitutes, Lesbians, and Orgasm Fairies
I was offered a job as an Orgasm Fairy, the other day. Apparently, I am #5 on a google search for the term “Orgasm Fairy”. So I got that going for me. Then again, every time I check my stats, someone has found this site by searching for the term Continue Reading
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sex
Cindy vs. Julia
It is a bit of a running joke in my family, that around the holidays, whenever someone asks what I would like, I always tell them “Cindy Crawford” or “Julia Roberts”. How I’ve managed to make it this long without receiving a life size cutout or blow-up doll of one Continue Reading
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sex
This woman sat down
This woman sat down next to me on the subway today. An amazingly beautiful woman. Thin, athletic body. Quirky smile. Worn out jeans, boots, and small white T-shirt. Of course I didn’t talk to her. “When I do finally torture, medicate or hypnotize someone into manipulating my bits , the Continue Reading